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	<description>Surviving the wilderness of singledom, carefully minding the gap between woman and man.</description>
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		<title>Comment on Still Reminding Myself: Don&#8217;t Settle by Alene</title>
		<link>http://minddagap.wordpress.com/2008/07/28/still-reminding-myself-dont-settle/#comment-70</link>
		<dc:creator>Alene</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Sep 2008 01:25:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Just make sure to involve the coconut!</description>
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		<title>Comment on Still Reminding Myself: Don&#8217;t Settle by Misadventures of Online Dating Continues &#171; Woman vs. Date</title>
		<link>http://minddagap.wordpress.com/2008/07/28/still-reminding-myself-dont-settle/#comment-68</link>
		<dc:creator>Misadventures of Online Dating Continues &#171; Woman vs. Date</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Aug 2008 21:17:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] minddagap @ 5:17 pm    Back online to &#8216;put myself out&#8217; there (have not resorted to praying quite yet), I received a message on Nerve today to which I&#8217;m not quite sure how to respond. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] minddagap @ 5:17 pm    Back online to &#8216;put myself out&#8217; there (have not resorted to praying quite yet), I received a message on Nerve today to which I&#8217;m not quite sure how to respond. [...]</p>
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		<title>Comment on Karma Rocks by katie</title>
		<link>http://minddagap.wordpress.com/2007/11/27/karma-rocks/#comment-61</link>
		<dc:creator>katie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Mar 2008 06:41:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hey this post  reminds me of this other person&#039;s psycho ex blog &lt;a href=&quot;http://officeofstrategicinfluence.com/rachael/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;psycho ex story&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hey this post  reminds me of this other person&#8217;s psycho ex blog <a href="http://officeofstrategicinfluence.com/rachael/" rel="nofollow">psycho ex story</a></p>
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		<title>Comment on Age old question by minddagap</title>
		<link>http://minddagap.wordpress.com/2007/08/22/age-old-question/#comment-28</link>
		<dc:creator>minddagap</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Feb 2008 18:08:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have come to the conclusion that only ex&#039;s who have compassion, respect, and honesty for one another can be friends.    Perhaps its takes time, but it can happen. Just not with my ex, unfortunately.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have come to the conclusion that only ex&#8217;s who have compassion, respect, and honesty for one another can be friends.    Perhaps its takes time, but it can happen. Just not with my ex, unfortunately.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Funny Message From Online Suitor by Alene</title>
		<link>http://minddagap.wordpress.com/2007/11/27/funny-online-dating-message/#comment-22</link>
		<dc:creator>Alene</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 23 Dec 2007 23:34:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m going to g-vomit (gag &amp; then vomit) . . .</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m going to g-vomit (gag &amp; then vomit) . . .</p>
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		<title>Comment on Community, please advise by Alene</title>
		<link>http://minddagap.wordpress.com/2007/11/27/how-to-be-slutty-community-please-advise/#comment-21</link>
		<dc:creator>Alene</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 23 Dec 2007 23:33:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>One bra size too small AND low cut shirts, perhaps a mini (totally inappropriate at work), but how far does she want to push the slut-factor??</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One bra size too small AND low cut shirts, perhaps a mini (totally inappropriate at work), but how far does she want to push the slut-factor??</p>
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		<title>Comment on Age old question by Life Changing Experience</title>
		<link>http://minddagap.wordpress.com/2007/08/22/age-old-question/#comment-19</link>
		<dc:creator>Life Changing Experience</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Nov 2007 16:38:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Normally I would say that, no, former lovers can not be friends. I have however found an exception; when a friend of mine went through a life changing experience 2 very interesting things happened: the first is the men she had important relationships with came back to her and gave her support in some lovely ways. They helped her through her depression and used the personal information learned during their relationship for good. The shorthand was there and their presence was comforting. 
The second thig is that the men with whom she had less important relationships pissed her off and set her off in ways she was not able to deal with during her life changing experience. She managed to cut most of them off pretty darn quick. 
Caring about someone doesnt go away into the ether, and old lovers should not have to either--once some time has passed.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Normally I would say that, no, former lovers can not be friends. I have however found an exception; when a friend of mine went through a life changing experience 2 very interesting things happened: the first is the men she had important relationships with came back to her and gave her support in some lovely ways. They helped her through her depression and used the personal information learned during their relationship for good. The shorthand was there and their presence was comforting.<br />
The second thig is that the men with whom she had less important relationships pissed her off and set her off in ways she was not able to deal with during her life changing experience. She managed to cut most of them off pretty darn quick.<br />
Caring about someone doesnt go away into the ether, and old lovers should not have to either&#8211;once some time has passed.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Community, please advise by Collector of men</title>
		<link>http://minddagap.wordpress.com/2007/11/27/how-to-be-slutty-community-please-advise/#comment-18</link>
		<dc:creator>Collector of men</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Nov 2007 00:25:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wear a bra one size too small</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wear a bra one size too small</p>
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		<title>Comment on Community, please advise by erin</title>
		<link>http://minddagap.wordpress.com/2007/11/27/how-to-be-slutty-community-please-advise/#comment-17</link>
		<dc:creator>erin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Nov 2007 23:12:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Drink more and think less</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Drink more and think less</p>
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		<title>Comment on Karma Rocks by Alene</title>
		<link>http://minddagap.wordpress.com/2007/11/27/karma-rocks/#comment-16</link>
		<dc:creator>Alene</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Nov 2007 22:29:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yeah baby, retribution is sweet!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yeah baby, retribution is sweet!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Bullish Trends Extend into Virtual MeetMarket by MindDaGap</title>
		<link>http://minddagap.wordpress.com/2007/08/24/bullish-trends-extend-into-virtual-meetmarket/#comment-14</link>
		<dc:creator>MindDaGap</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Sep 2007 19:38:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>But Tsar, to have an online brand, one must actually have a product to advertise!  Are these anonymous online trollers really successful? I&#039;m aghast. If so, what does that say about us women? Are we in such a drought we&#039;ll even drink water from an unknown source?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>But Tsar, to have an online brand, one must actually have a product to advertise!  Are these anonymous online trollers really successful? I&#8217;m aghast. If so, what does that say about us women? Are we in such a drought we&#8217;ll even drink water from an unknown source?</p>
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		<title>Comment on Triumph by Been There Done That</title>
		<link>http://minddagap.wordpress.com/2007/08/27/triumph/#comment-13</link>
		<dc:creator>Been There Done That</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Aug 2007 15:35:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yeah, but at least they were different colors!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yeah, but at least they were different colors!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Memo to Men: What not to do with your online profiles by minddagap</title>
		<link>http://minddagap.wordpress.com/2007/08/27/memo-to-men-what-not-to-do-with-your-online-profiles/#comment-12</link>
		<dc:creator>minddagap</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Aug 2007 15:11:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dear Mr. Online dater,
You make a fine point - Miss Online Dater has made her fair share of mistakes.  Perhaps Woman vs. Date needs to take a look at her peers to see what tips we could share with the ladies.  Now seriously, please do put that shirt back on. And no, not the tight tee shirt with humorous graphic.
Yours,
MindDaGap</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Mr. Online dater,<br />
You make a fine point &#8211; Miss Online Dater has made her fair share of mistakes.  Perhaps Woman vs. Date needs to take a look at her peers to see what tips we could share with the ladies.  Now seriously, please do put that shirt back on. And no, not the tight tee shirt with humorous graphic.<br />
Yours,<br />
MindDaGap</p>
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		<title>Comment on Memo to Men: What not to do with your online profiles by mr online dater</title>
		<link>http://minddagap.wordpress.com/2007/08/27/memo-to-men-what-not-to-do-with-your-online-profiles/#comment-11</link>
		<dc:creator>mr online dater</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Aug 2007 04:40:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>wait wait wait a minute... put our shirts on?  Stop showing SOOOO much cleavage and then saying that you&#039;re not that type of girl!  And what&#039;s wrong with spending time in front of a mirror?  Maybe if some of the women actually did that maybe they wouldn&#039;t have such an unjustified, high opinion of themselves.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>wait wait wait a minute&#8230; put our shirts on?  Stop showing SOOOO much cleavage and then saying that you&#8217;re not that type of girl!  And what&#8217;s wrong with spending time in front of a mirror?  Maybe if some of the women actually did that maybe they wouldn&#8217;t have such an unjustified, high opinion of themselves.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Age old question by Tricia</title>
		<link>http://minddagap.wordpress.com/2007/08/22/age-old-question/#comment-10</link>
		<dc:creator>Tricia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 26 Aug 2007 00:28:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Every relationship I&#039;ve had (give or take a nasty break-up here and there) I tried to remain friends with the ex.  Here I am, years later, not knowing where any of them are except the one I ended up  marrying.  I agree that the stronger the love is, the harder it is to maintain a friendship.  That&#039;s not to say it should be avoided...just entered into with caution for one&#039;s heart.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Every relationship I&#8217;ve had (give or take a nasty break-up here and there) I tried to remain friends with the ex.  Here I am, years later, not knowing where any of them are except the one I ended up  marrying.  I agree that the stronger the love is, the harder it is to maintain a friendship.  That&#8217;s not to say it should be avoided&#8230;just entered into with caution for one&#8217;s heart.</p>
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